My husband and I

Photo by :Dore Barbeiro

Tuesday I went to my old home ,only to find out that a woman was just delivered of her baby girl,though not easy I heard .So as usual women gathered saying their experiences during child birth and even when pregnant, I felt like running out from their many talks but one struck me back ,one of the women said that when she gets pregnant it becomes hell at home,because she becomes a new person; like a different spirit runs her that period.


Still confused on what that meant,another confirmed it with her own side of the story,"hmmm! in short my own be say anytime I see my husband my body go they pinch me,he go they irritate me ,sometimes self ordinary perk self I no dey collect from am,in short na work o! We go dey quarrel for nothing ".And my mouth was open in my mind not physically,trying to place all what the second woman literally confessed.


The third woman voiced out exactly what was in my mind all this while " aah! na that time plenty men wey no know God,dey go outside na! go get wetin u no give them for house and once they go out na so their eyes go remain outside,if na drink or siga they make them happy they go take am".In all these conversation my eyes were on the road but ears down listening.


I was so amazed at their unconscious release of their home matters.I think this is werd ,I really thought about their conversion as I got to the house, but does it happen to all women,why,these questions I am yet to get an answer to ,but if u do have answers tell us.