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| an excited couple |
Having an exciting relationship doesn't depend on the fact that you and your partner do not quarrel or disagree, but on the fact that you are happy exetra. Many experience a beautiful relationship at the beginning but later it turns sore. Some one may say, that is how it usually starts. But guess what, a relationship is what you make it. If you want it to be a war zone, fine that is how it is going to be, but if you want it be a bed of roses so shall it be as you please. In today's article I will break down some of the things that can make your relationship exciting. If you already have an exciting relationship but you want more, be creative with some of the points below.
First of all, to have a beautiful/exciting relationship you must trust your partner. You may be expectating the norm of "you must love your partner", but seriously you have no business in a relationship if you don't love your partner, so it is not in my list.
Trust is believing even when you see and sense some wrong movement from your partner. This is no license to misbehave, but trusting your partner gives you a sense of security in that relationship. The truth is, if there is no trust, you can never enjoy your relationship even when your partner is beautiful or handsome, has everything you want in a partner, it will never work.
If you find it hard to trust your partner, take a pulse and check why this is. Treat the trust issue first before you proceed to marry, that is if you are not yet married.
Second in my list, you have to communicate more with your partner. Yes you do it but you don't do it the right way. Probably in a selfish manner. What I mean by a selfish manner, is when you only talk about your self, your job etc. Every thing that you talk about is only about you, and you don't care about your partner's self. For example you are a lawyer and the only thing that comprises your communication come rain come shine, is everything law; what a boring relationship. Communication brings out information that may have been hidden if not for the communication, you get to know more about your partner, likes and dislikes, the nature of his job. Yes he said he works in the bank, do you know if he is the bank driver or an executive. If he is a driver, who is his direct boss, etc. Communication reveals all of this and takes away argument. If he is a driver in the bank, of course he will not be home at the same time a real banker gets back because, he will take his boss home and then gets to his home late. Communication is the bone of every relationship, do not assume what you don't know.
Finally, learn how to do the things that you both love together. Well, if your partner loves watching movies, watch movies together, even if you don't love movies, try to enjoy watching movie. I don't mean force yourself, but teach yourself how to love movies for the sake of your partner. Surprisingly, you can imagine the bond that comes with that. This something that can create bonding with your partner aside from sex. If your relationship is a sex free one, doing what your partner loves doing more with them, creates that same bond that sex gives.
So learn those things she likes or he likes for an exciting relationship. These are the things that keep the relationship going even when you are married. In addition, love doesn't keep relationships going, but when you practice the above things, you find out that you cannot do without your partner, because your everyday life is enrapt in theirs. Enjoy your week.
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